Tuesday 29 December 2009

Achieving A Good Rating In Heaven


The Christmas weekend of 2009 brought about the highest grossing receipts for movies - $278million - breaking the previous record set in July 2008 ($253 million) the weekend “The Dark Knight” was released. Leading in the juggernaut was the epic sci-fi “Avatar” written and directed by James Cameron whose previous feature film remains to be the highest grossing of all time, “Titanic”.

I dare ask the question, “Were there more people going to the cinemas than there were faithful who attended the Christmas mass?” With promotion costs reaching millions, the movie industry can draw people to queue in line to see a film, while the churches depend much on its eternal superstar Jesus Christ. Of course, there is no comparison. The message of salvation is of far more importance than the fleeting entertainment and escape in the movie house.

During His ministry, Christ entertained the people with parables, if only to let them understand the Good News that He brought. Even to this day, human beings love to be entertained, thus they spend a good portion of their income for arts, music, sports, shows and movies. Why would James Cameron pour out $500 million to produce and market “Avatar”, if he did not expect a good return of investment?

While movie producers are profiteers, they must realise too that they carry a huge burden on society that feeds on the message their films bring across. Thus, the industry has classifications and ratings to ensure that harmful films do not contaminate the minds of young and old alike.

“Avatar” is an example of a movie that works like a parable, easily catching the attention of viewers, and creating a lasting impression on its similarity to life, to people, to faith. When I left the cinema, I thought about the purpose of my life, about the greed of people, about the wars waged between nations, about the destruction of earth’s environment, about our relationship with the Almighty God. 

Movie producers together with directors and scriptwriters are messengers who can lead viewers to damnation or to salvation. When they bring their films to multitudes of people, they can affect their thinking, their values and even their lifestyle. If the movie industry has impact on people and society, so has each one of us.  We carry as much responsibility, in the things we communicate to others, in the deeds we do each day, in the way we relate to the environment around us.

We are messengers and witnesses of God. “Go into all of the world and preach the Good News to everyone.” (Mark 16:15) He sent His Son so we can model our lives to His teachings, to His examples. For instance, think about the stories you tell to others. Are these in keeping with the Word of God? Do these promote better relationships? Do these lead towards the salvation of the listener? If all your answers are positive, then you have achieved the feat that James Cameron did with “Avatar”. Otherwise, you need to do better to gain a good rating in Heaven.

by Mel Libre

Monday 21 December 2009

A Blessed Christmas and a Blissful New Year


A handful of members of TawagAwit prepared the Fr David Nolan Auditorium for Open Gathering on December 20.  Each one went about doing what was necessary to ensure that everything went smoothly for the party of giving, sharing and caring. “Will they come?” most of us wondered. We had done our best, God would do the rest.

We prayed for good weather (it was forecasted to be rainy) and a good turnout (only a few confirmed attendance).

We got more than what we expected.

1.     The weather was cool and sunny, just perfect for the celebration.
2.     By the time the programme started, we had gathered more than a hundred that grew to 300 midway through the proceedings.
3.     People graciously brought food and gifts, that there was enough for everyone to partake and receive.
4.     Bro Bob and Sis Cez Nacario brought a six-foot tall Christmas tree that brightened up the bare stage with all the donated gifts placed underneath the tree.
5.     Initially, we only had three sure performers, but as the days toward the event grew nearer, we obtained commitment from diverse talents from acoustic performers to classical artists – plus a big congregation of Visayan-speaking talents rendered a thoroughly rousing number.
6.     Four speakers – Fr Mike Tria, Fr Reno Alima, Bro Oscar Batucan and Sis Miriam Batucan – gave wonderful insights on celebrating Christmas and strengthening the family.
7.     Clarinda Bonilla who offered to design and bake a special cake for the birthday celebrant, Jesus, said that she felt wonderfully fulfilled when she came out with the simple, yet meaningful design of the images of Joseph, Mary and Jesus placed on top of the cake.
8.     Holding the event required finances to pay for the venue and other necessities, and kind individuals gave voluntarily which made the event self-liquidating.
9.     There were lots of smiles, of Christmas greetings, of gratitude throughout the celebration. One participant emailed: “Well done to the organizers of OG!!! Thumbs up to all of you!!”

The Holy Spirit never abandons us. “If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?” (Luke 11:13)  Instead He gifts us with more than what we pray for, especially if the prayer is meant for others and for the good of all.

If you feel lonely and abandoned this Christmas, open your heart and allow the Holy Spirit to fill you with the love and peace of the Child Jesus who was born to save you and me. You may get more than you expect.

by Mel Libre

Monday 14 December 2009

Touching the Doors of Heaven


The majestic 40 voices of the North Shore Male Choir filled the St Mary’s Church, Northcote in Auckland, New Zealand. Two other guests – a duet of tenors and a young soprano – brought the level of performance higher with classical hymns interpreted with exquisite precision.

As the Christmas concert on December 13 went on its final set, TawagAwit with 10 singers (5 males and 5 females) took the stage in front of the altar and sang two numbers, a sweet melody “Who will send a Baby?” and a Christmas medley consisting of a Visayan song, a Tagalog carol and its English translation. All of our members are untrained musicians who do not read notes, so it was natural to feel intimidated by the other performers. As Jenny Fox started playing the opening melodies of the first song on piano, we started softly like singing a lullaby. By the end of the song, we could feel that we had touched the hearts of the audience.

Before we rendered the second song, Seminarian Larry Rustia, dedicating the song “Have a Merry Little Christmas” to his deceased father, intense in emotion made a few shed tears. We then lifted up everyone’s spirit as Bro Bert Adviento and I strummed the acoustic guitars, and the female members swayed to “Ania Kami/Ang Pasko ay Sumapit”.  A spectator later said, “I felt the warmth of the sun with your Spanish inspired melodies and I could feel the joy and fun, though I could not understand what you were singing.”

Sis Cez Nacario had our performance videotaped by her daughter; and a day later gave me feedback that she noticed that as we sang the life-size crucifix of Jesus seemed to glow as we performed. Prior to our performance as we usually do, we prayed for the guidance of the Holy Spirit and we offered our songs to the birthday celebrant, Jesus Christ. Each time we render music offerings to the Lord, we seem to touch the doors of heaven.

God loves to listen to music that honours Him. “For the Lord your God is living among you...He will rejoice over you with joyful songs.” (Zephaniah 3:17) Thus, let us “sing unto him a new song; play skilfully with a loud noise.” (Psalm 33:3) When we turn God’s written Word into music and share these with others, we become true disciples. “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.” (Colossians 3:16)

by Mel Libre

Monday 7 December 2009

10 Ways to Make Christmas Meaningful

Many people look forward to Christmas for different reasons.  For some, it is a break from work, while others find extra work with the increased business activities. For some, it is a time to play Santa Claus, while others expect gifts to come their way. For some, it is having fun, while others spend time to pray.
 
Whatever way we spend Christmas, it is important that we put the first six letters of the word Christmas on top of everything we do. All the rejoicing, gift-giving and partying will be meaningless if we forget about the birth of Christ who brought hope and salvation to us, God’s children.
 
To make Christmas meaningful, here are ten things to do:
 
1.     Wish everyone a “Merry Christmas”
There is magical warmth to a Christmas greeting. It brings about a smile, a hug or even a kiss. Though you may not know it, you are actually evangelising – sharing the wonderful story of the King of Kings who was born in a manger.
2.     Attend Christmas church services
To honour Jesus, we must attend masses where His presence is in the bread and the wine, His Body and His Blood. The mass is the highest form of celebration for faith believers.
3.     Give affordable gifts to loved ones
The essence of Christmas is that of giving, for such was the reason for His being born on earth. He was so giving that He died for you and me.
4.     Display the manger scene at home
Forget about Christmas trees, lanterns and Santa Claus. If there is a perfect reminder about the birth of Christ, then it is the Nativity scene that shows us of His humility and sacrifices.
5.     Read the Bible and watch a Christmas movie
By reading the Holy Book, one is able to strengthen the cord that binds us to our Creator. By reflecting on God’s Word, one can gain deeper insight on the love of the Lord to His people. There are many wonderful films that carry the message of hope, peace and love; most importantly the Nativity movie. These kinds of flicks seen together with family can bring about respect, closeness and understanding.
6.     Give a stranger or a new migrant a treat
It is human to give to those whom we know and care for. It is divine to share what you have to others, especially the needy and the helpless.  Joseph and Mary were migrants and strangers in Bethlehem and nobody opened their doors to give them shelter. If we open our hearts to strangers and migrants, we will have given shelter to Joseph, Mary and Jesus.
7.     Sing a birthday song to Jesus and Christmas carols to believers and unbelievers
When Christ was born the angels sang “Gloria in excelsis Deo” that resonated in Heaven, Earth and even in Hell. Acclaiming Jesus through songs will certainly fill the void in the world. The power of a song can penetrate hearts of stone and disarm Satan and his minions.
8.     Volunteer in a Christmas event
The shepherds and the Three Wise Men visited and adored the Child Jesus. They did not demand anything in return, for they came with love and awe. There are many events organised where you can be of help. Lend a hand and you will experience immense joy and inner peace.
9.     Cook your best dish and share it with others
If Jesus was your guest what would you cook for Him? Surely, you will cook that you know best and have been complimented many times in the past. You would want Jesus to taste and savour your dish. Wouldn’t you be delighted if He says thank you and asks you for the recipe? In the physical absence of Christ, every other person represents Him; thus feeding others is actualising your finest cooking for Christ.  
10. Join Open Gathering 
What great experience it would be if you joined Open Gathering (OG) where people party to give, share and care. An OG will have artists sharing their talents, those who have more giving gifts to strangers, and everyone bringing food for a feast. While OG happens in Auckland, it can definitely happen anywhere so long as there are people who want to make Christmas meaningful for themselves and for others. OG can best be described in this Washington Irving quote: “Christmas is the season for kindling the fire of hospitality in the hall, the genial flame of charity in the heart.”

by Mel Libre

Monday 30 November 2009

Bad people


There are bad people.

Human history exposes the barbaric and bestial acts committed by nations, rulers and armies. The 20th century witnessed the mass execution of Jews by Nazi Germany, not to mention innocent civilians who became casualties between the warring nations.

In recent times, there were the internecine wars in Africa and Europe which gave rise to the term “ethnic cleansing”. Just a week ago, the world was stunned at the news that 57 people were murdered in Maguindanao province in Southern Philippines, 30 of whom were media people covering a political activity that turned into a bloodbath. We also read about senseless killings of people in public places and even in safe havens like schools.

Pride and envy caused Cain to kill Abel. The slaughter of innocent children by Herod was a result of fear of the rise of a Jewish king. And despite doing good deeds and sharing wise teachings, Jesus Christ was crucified for He defied the authorities who were jealous of His power.

God the Father, out of His eternal love, creates each person to be good, to do good, and to die good. But because He likewise gave us free will; we decide on what to do with their lives. There are those who follow God’s will; but others become attached to worldly ambitions and material wealth. The latter easily succumb to the temptations of Satan who find joy in evilness and selfishness of sinners. These sinners are the bad people that bring about trouble, if not chaos into this world.

It is easy to condemn bad people; yet God looks at them with love, with hope – as He does to those who are obedient to Him. “But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.” (Luke 6:35)

It is not for us to judge others, but then it is not also correct to allow wrongdoing to happen, if not thrive. We are asked, “Who will rise up for me against the evildoers? or who will stand up for me against the workers of iniquity?” (Psalm 94:16) Each one is empowered to rise against evil; each one is to stand against the workers of iniquity. How? “Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.” (Romans 12:21)

For the righteous will always be victorious over people who do bad deeds. “For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is against them that do evil.” (1 Peter 3:12)

by Mel Libre

Monday 23 November 2009

One True Servant King


Fr Ruben Elago, MSP, chaplain of the Filipino community in Auckland, New Zealand, in his homily on the occasion of the Feast of Christ the King said that the kingship of Jesus is totally opposite that of how the world views people holding high positions. To make his point, he narrated about a newly arrived migrant who had yet to find work introduced himself to the priest and asked the latter in what way he could serve the parish. “That is leadership,” he explained, “it is that desire to volunteer, to work, to serve others that makes one a leader.”

A good example of a true leader is Efren PeƱaflorida who was recognised as the 2009 CNN Hero of the Year on November 21, 2009 at the Kodak Theater in Hollywood. The Filipino street educator who heads the Dynamic Teen Company was honoured for the “Kariton Klassroom” (pushcart classroom) programme that brings education to more than 1,500 poor children as an alternative to gang membership in Cavite. He leads 10,000 volunteers who teach the 3 Rs as well as basic hygiene to these children.

In his acceptance speech, Efren said: “Our planet is filled with heroes, young and old, rich and poor, man, woman of different colours, shapes and sizes. We are one great tapestry, Each person has a hidden hero within, you just have to look inside you and search it in your heart, and be the hero to the next one in need.”

Saints and martyrs are heroes of faith. They lived lives of selflessness, humility and sacrifice.  Dedicating themselves to serve others, they modelled themselves after the Leader of leaders, the King of kings. Jesus Christ had no palace, no army, no slaves, though he reigns over Heaven and earth. He offered His life by dying on the cross to save humanity from sin and Satan. “Though [Jesus Christ] was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to...In human form, he humbled himself in obedience to God.” (Philippians 2:6-8) Christ is the one true Servant King.

Efren was given a total of US$125,000 cash prize for his feat. When asked how he would use the money, he responded: “Iyong 90% cash mapupunta sa Dynamic Teen Company. Iyong 10% sa church...Nothing for me.” He added: “Nandito po ako para i-represent ang mga bata, iyong mga dedicated volunteers, iyong mentor ko, iyong selfless and hardworking Filipinos.”  As Fr Ruben would say: “That is leadership.” And may I add: “That is servanthood.”

by Mel Libre

Monday 16 November 2009

Knock at Doors


Let me begin with a story and an invitation.

A migrant couple knocked at doors in a distant town, as the woman was with child. Not one gave them shelter; so they had to settle for a stable for animals where the King of Kings was born. To undo the injustice the human race did more than 2,000 years ago, Catholic groups in North Shore (Auckland, New Zealand) invites you to the Open Gathering on 20 December at the Fr David Nolan Auditorium, St Joseph’s Takapuna where we shall sing Christmas songs; share food and drinks; and offer you gifts. We shall celebrate the true spirit of Christmas for migrants such as you.

Now allow me to proceed to the issue at hand. It concerns us migrants who have come to Aotearoa New Zealand in these uncertain economic times. We had met several times to discuss our plight and we made proposals to the National Party government through Immigration Minister Jonathan Coleman to ease our suffering, to relieve our misery.

Dr Coleman’s reception has been cold. He has failed to realize that migrant workers are not sucking up the economy. In fact, many are borrowing money from home to keep them going. All we are asking for is a chance to have them here a little longer, to find a job, and for Immigration New Zealand to abide by its original promise when it issued the Work-to-Residence visas – for them to fill up the shortages for skilled workers.

 At the end of the day, everyone suffers, including the New Zealand economy, if we send these workers packing.

We have therefore asked Members of Parliament who understand the situation of the migrant workers to come to our rescue. Today, we turn over to them for sponsorship a petition signed by more than 2,000 individuals that aims to address urgent concerns. In extraordinary times, extraordinary measures must be adopted and extraordinary representatives of the people are needed to sponsor the measures.

As I begun this talk with a story. Let me end with another one. A group of migrants knocked at the doors of Aotearoa New Zealand – and they were let in, as Work-to-Residence visa holders and temporary workers. They were amazed with its vibrant cities and beautiful sceneries. It was dream come true out of the postcards and the inviting materials in the Immigration New Zealand website. But as soon as they began job searching, they woke up to the reality that they’ve been led to the backdoor that directs them to the stable for animals, becoming an underclass in what they thought was a fair and caring society.

by Mel Libre

Monday 9 November 2009

A Special Day For A Special You

Danny Milano is a lechon maker who works for Claudia’s Lechon, one of the most popular suppliers of Philippine flavoured roasted pigs in Auckland. He marked his 50th birth anniversary on November 1, 2009. Proprietor Sendo Menchavez went out of his way with the help of more than 50 friends to surprise Danny with a celebration. Sendo told Danny that there was an order for lechon to be delivered in the Social Hall of the Good Shepherd Parish in Balmoral.  Just to make sure that Danny would have no inkling about the activity, Sendo gave Danny a free parking ticket in Sky City, which is several blocks away, to make it appear that a more private affair was arranged later.
 
By 5:30pm, Danny arrived at the Social Hall and as he entered the room, the well-wishers greeted him with a “Happy Birthday” song. Danny’s face glowed with joy and amazement and this remained so throughout the programme; with people dedicating songs to him and close relations sharing tributes to a humble and valuable individual. Though he did not have the company of his own family, Danny must have felt the love of the people who surrounded him at that moment.
 
It was the same warmth in the heart that I experienced on November 6, when my three children – Kim, Jam and Me-el – surprised me with a little celebration on my 53rd birthday. While my wife, Debbie and I went out, they hurriedly cooked delicious recipes and ordered a decorated cake. We all had a wonderful time in the dinner table, a precious moment that I wanted to last forever.
 
Birthdays are usually associated with feasts and parties with family and friends around, with food and drinks served, where fun and laughter abound. Some look forward to it as a time for receiving gifts; while others approach it as an occasion for sharing. 
 
The key to celebrating a birthday is for a celebrant to consider it as a special moment for a special person. Menachem Mendel Schneerson wrote: “Because time itself is like a spiral, something special happens on your birthday each year:  The same energy that God invested in you at birth is present once again.” Whether you spend your birthday among friends, with family or alone, you ought to be happy and acknowledge to God: "You have filled my heart with great joy. It is greater than the joy of people who have lots of grain and fresh wine." (Psalm 4:7, NIrV)
 
There are no surprises as far as God is concerned for all His children. "For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things He planned for us long ago."(Ephesians 2:10, NLT)  He promises us eternal life in His Heavenly Kingdom and each year as we mark our birthdays, we must rejoice for we draw ourselves closer towards God’s destiny for us. "All the days ordained for me were written in Your book before one of them came to be." (Psalm 139:16b, NIV)

by Mel Libre

Monday 2 November 2009

The Best Treat


On the eve of October 31, Halloween is observed in most Western countries with children (and even adults) dressing up in witch costumes, putting on skeleton masks and that of other horrifying creatures.  The tradition is to knock at doors of neighbouring homes and greeting the house owners, “Trick or Treat?” The commercialisation of the event goes beyond the get-ups as it dominates the theatres as well – with horror films like “Shake, Rattle and Roll”, “Saw”, and “Paranormal Activity”.

An official of the Catholic Church in the Philippines, Masbate Bishop Joel Baylon says that Halloween merchandise encourages bad behaviour and promotes negative aspects of All Saints’ Day.  He said, “I’m worried that Halloween has the potential to trivialize the realities of evil in the world and occult practices should not be condoned, even if they are only being presented like toys.”

Two of the biggest movie franchises are Harry Potter and Twilight. The first one is about the students of Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry, while the second one deals with teenage vampires with angst.  While these may just be fantasy movies based on popular novels, the franchises have actually brought black magic and satanic creatures into pop culture. Subtly creeping into the sub-consciousness of young readers, these practices and beliefs maybe accepted as natural and harmless.

We may not know it, but Satan is spreading his evilness in what seems trivial. The truth is “We are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12) If we think, we are making fun of the devil, think again, Lucifer may be the one playing tricks on us.

If the effort people exert in securing costumes, masks and lollies for Halloween is reverted to a more meaningful exercise of praying for, offering to and recollection on saints and the souls of the dear departed, then we can surely help those spirits who are in purgatory, we can learn about the sacrifices and rewards of those who championed the faith, we can bring ourselves closer to our Almighty Creator.. Our solemn ritual may be the best treat we can share to the youth and the little ones for when we will ourselves be among the departed, they will remember us and pray for us, so our souls will join the angels and saints in the company of God.

by Mel Libre

Monday 26 October 2009

Passion for Frugality


The economic meltdown of 2008-2009 has wrought havoc in the lives of many in the world. While those in the 3rd world suffer in poverty, hunger and unemployment; people in developed nations have been affected as well due to closure of businesses, unpaid mortgages and job cuts.  Even those belonging to the Forbes list of the richest people have seen the value of their investments plummet.

Associated Press reported on Oct 21, 2009 that “the global economic crisis has generated a new phenomenon: luxury shame, or the shunning of ostentatious purchase of expensive jewellery, watches and fashion.”  A Bain & Co study reveals that the global luxury market is expected to be worth 153 billion euros in 2009, compared with 167 billion euros in 2008.

Luxury goods expert Claudia D’Arpizio says that women this year opted to ‘shop their closets’ and accessorise to update their wardrobes rather than buy new clothes.  She tells, “Frugality is fashionable,” even among the wealthiest consumers.

“Frugality” is a rarely used word in a profit-propelled business world. Advertisements aim to convince consumers that this or that product is a necessity, if not the best one in the market. One of the truths behind the global economic crisis is that people have lived beyond their means, what with banking and lending institutions extending credit to the max, with hidden charges and penalties.

The synonyms of frugality are thrift, self-denial and abstinence. In practical terms, a frugal person is one who spends only on what are necessary and resists non-essentials. Greek historian Agesilaus taught: “By sowing frugality we reap liberty, a golden harvest,” while modern-day industrialist John D. Rockefeller said: “I believe that thrift is essential to well-ordered living.”

Jesus Christ was frugal, living a selfless life with no attachment to the world, committing His life fully to the Father and His people. One rich man turned his back on Jesus when told that he had to distribute his treasures to become his disciple. “Jesus said unto him, If thou wilt be perfect, go and sell that thou hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come and follow me. But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowful: for he had great possessions.” (Matthew 19:21-22) Sending out his followers to spread His teachings, He told them:   “Provide neither gold, nor silver, nor brass in your purses. Nor scrip for your journey, neither two coats, neither shoes, nor yet staves: for the workman is worthy of his meat.” (Matthew 10:9-10)

The baggage that we carry in our lives is filled with many useless items that keep us attached to the world, that slow down, if not prevent us from reaching the destination God willed for us.  Doug Dyment, creator of Onebag.com, who espouses the art and science of traveling light, says that the biggest reason people tend to over pack is the “general fear of the unknown…travelers don't know what they might need, so they take everything. You need to come up with a packing list.”

God, through Jesus Christ, has given us the packing list so we can arrive with certainty in His heavenly kingdom.  There is therefore no reason to fear, for as long as you “think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth. For you died to this life, and your real life is hidden with Christ in God.”(Colossians 3:2-3)

by Mel Libre

Tuesday 20 October 2009

Lost Children


In Auckland, New Zealand, two-year old Aisling Symes wandered off from the lawn as her mother was cleaning the house. By the time the mother called out for her, she was nowhere to be found. A search was conducted first within the vicinity of the house and then in the neighbourhood, but these proved fruitless. The succeeding days, the media covered the story and police went to the extent of suggesting that the child was abducted.  It was two weeks later when police revisited the area around the house that they discovered the lifeless body of Aisling in the drainage a few meters from where she was playing. During the funeral, her parents called the child “an angel”.

In Colorado, USA, a run-away giant helium balloon was pursued relentlessly by two helicopters and other transport facilities, when Richard Heene sought help from authorities, claiming that his 6-year old son, Falcon, was on board. The incident was covered live by television beamed to millions worldwide. When the balloon landed, Falcon was not in it, so searchers frantically scoured the 50-miles route to locate his body.  It was found out later that the little boy was hiding inside their house, who during an interview said that “we did this for a show.” Now authorities are studying the possibility of filing felony charges against the parents for the “hoax”.

Adults cherish children. A child is joy to a family; a gift to a community; a vital element of humanity.  It must be because a child is innocent, helpless and dependent. The child seeks a nurturing mother, a providing father and loving siblings. The more that a child is showered with love the more that the child warms the world with its unadulterated laughter, its genuine happiness and its boundless gratitude. It is therefore instinctive for adults to be deeply concerned when a child is found missing.

When Joseph and Mary realised that Jesus aged 12 was not with them as they left Jerusalem, they searched for him. They found him three days later in the temple with the teachers. And Mary like any mother asked Him, “Son, why have You done this to us? Look, Your father and I have sought You anxiously.” (Luke 2:48) Not only will a family be anxious, a community would be restless as well. In the case of Aisling, concerned individuals and organisations, media and police exerted all efforts to find the 2-year old girl; while in the Colorado case, world TV viewers followed the unfolding drama with deep concern.

Christ tells us on how God looks at children: “These children are at the very centre of life in the kingdom.” (Mark 10:14) He explains this further: “Truly, I say to you, unless you repent and become like little children, you can never enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3)

If we are to learn from the Aisling story, it is that adults must pay attention to children, otherwise, they may get lost, if not endanger their lives, for children have no fear of the world. The balloon boy episode on the other hand reveals how adults can exploit, if not corrupt their children. Adults should be models of righteousness, as their words and actions are the templates that the little ones will duplicate and follow.

As children mature into adults – they become more confident in themselves which we expect them to be. Yet, there are those who become too proud and self-indulgent, at times denying God in the process. Adults get lost in the wilderness of a selfish and material world; not realising that the God they deny seeks out for them, so they will return to His warm embrace.  God the Father who created each one of us, loves us for we are His children. “The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God.” (Romans 8:16) When we are lost, God calls out for us: Listen, and be found.

by Mel Libre

Monday 12 October 2009

Impostor Syndrome


If at one time or another you asked the question, “Do I deserve to be in this higher position?” with a feeling of guilt that you have inadequate skills, you have experienced the “impostor syndrome”.  According to Suzanne Mercier of impostorhood.com, “impostors don’t recognise their own talents and as a result feel like frauds. You think you don’t deserve the success you’ve achieved and have just got where you are out of good luck.”

Keith McGregor, an industrial psychologist, says that impostor syndrome causes a person to be defensive when criticised, to hold one’s self back from new challenges and encourages an individual to procrastinate and avoid responsibility. Triathlete Harmish Carter, pressured by expectations that he’d win gold in the Sydney Olympics lost big time; but collected gold when he simply relaxed and enjoyed himself as he competed in the Athens Olympics.

Simon Peter, in many passages, felt of his inadequacies to fulfil his role as a disciple of Jesus Christ, to be extent of denying Christ three times. A fisherman, Peter was tasked by Jesus to build His Church: “And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.” (Matthew 16:18)

Humbly accepting his human frailty, Peter became the worthy leader of the early Christian church because of his love and faith in Christ:  “He saith unto him the third time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time, Lovest thou me? And he said unto him, Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love thee. Jesus saith unto him, Feed my sheep.” (John 21:17)

Thus, when he pursued his ministry that led towards his martyrdom, Peter no longer felt like an impostor, unafraid to declare: “Simon Peter, a servant and an apostle of Jesus Christ, to them that have obtained like precious faith with us through the righteousness of God and our Saviour Jesus Christ” (2 Peter 1:1)

God never places us in a position that we are incapable of delivering what is expected of us. If we only draw from our own strength, there are times we do succeed; but failure would often come to hound us. By seeking God’s guidance and praying for his protection at all times plus doing our level best, there is no chance that victory or success is unattainable even in a higher position. “Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.” (Proverbs 3:6)

by Mel Libre

Monday 5 October 2009

Sneaker Wars


A German satirical magazine once published a touched-up photograph of a local priest in Herzogenaurach wearing in his left foot an adidas trainer while the other foot fitted in a Puma shoe.  It was meant to poke fun on the rivalry of the two sneaker companies that began when the founders of GebrĆ¼der Dassler Schuhfabrik (”Dassler Brothers Shoe Factory”), Adolf and Rudolf Dassler had a misunderstanding in 1943 when Allied Forces bombed Herzogenaurach, just outside Nuremberg. Rudolf took his wife and children down into the air raid shelter, with Adolf and his family following moments later. It is said that when Adolf took his seat he exclaimed: “The dirty bastards are back again.” While the comment was alleged to be directed to the bombers, Rudolf assumed that it referred to him and his family and from that time on their brotherly bond was irretrievably damaged.

After WWII, Adolf established his company, calling it ‘adidas’; while Rudolf set up a factory across town naming his business ‘Ruda’ (later renamed Puma). The rivalry carried on even after the deaths of the two brothers as their successors competed for attention and the market not just within the town, but into the sporting world as well. In 2005, the mayor of Herzogenaurach Hans Lang incensed by the satirical photo said:  "It is not true to say families of Puma employees and Adidas employees do not mix socially and that marriages between the two firms are forbidden." Barbara Smit, author of the book ‘Drei Streifen gegen Puma’ (‘Three Stripes versus Puma') in her account said that “the fierce sibling rivalry lasted through the second half of the 20th century and involved sporting giants such as Muhammad Ali, Pele, Franz Beckenbauer, Mark Spitz and Boris Becker; it was fought in World Cups and Olympics across the globe.”

During the Global Peace Day on September 21, 2009, employees of the two companies got together and played a game of soccer. To show the genuineness of the effort, the two companies collaborated on a soccer uniform that combined the adidas’ three stripes with Puma’s big cat. Puma CEO Jochen Zeitz, who played goalie for his team, said, “The symbolic handshake of adidas and Puma helped to raise awareness for Global Peace Day and the necessity for non-violence and ceasefire,” which adidas CEO Herbert Hainer who played midfield for his squad, agreed.

The anger that erupted between the Dassler brothers in the bunker in 1943 resulted in bitterness that grew intense for decades. While it did spur competition for better products and market domination, it did not create harmony in the family Dassler and the employees of the rival companies. Once bitterness (long term unresolved anger) takes roots, it becomes like toxin that affects everyone else.  “Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many.” (Hebrews 12:15)

The soccer game on September 21 must have meant so much to the people of Herzogenaurach. The general feeling of the citizens and workers in the prosperous yet unhappy community must have been one of relief from a deeply entrenched dagger being taken off their backs. The CEOs of the two companies did the laudable act of forgiveness. “Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” (Ephesians 4:31-32)

By burying the sins of the past, the stakeholders of adidas and Puma, and the citizens of Herzogenaurach can be assured that the souls of Adolf and Rudolf Dassler can rest in peace. And it would not be an impossibility anymore to expect the local priest to wear an adidas in his left foot and a Puma on the other to signify love, peace and harmony.

by Mel Libre

Wednesday 30 September 2009

We Can Be Heroes

With more than 200 confirmed dead, if not missing and more than a million people affected, typhoon Ondoy (international name: Ketsana) is one of the worst typhoons to have hit the Philippines.Ondoy dumped more than a month's worth of rain in just 12 hours, causing the government to declare a "state of calamity" in Metro Manila and 25 typhoon-ravaged provinces.
There is an outpouring of goodwill among people wanting to help the victims, but one story needs to be told: Army Private First Class Venancio Ancheta saved 20 people from raging floodwaters during rescue operations but lost his own life when he drowned while trying to rescue more in Famy town, Laguna. Six other rescuers suffered the same fate as Ancheta.
Heroes emerge in times of difficulties and disasters. The true strength of the spirit and of faith is revealed in a person when put to the test. Natural calamities, that cause damage to properties, loss of lives and immeasurable suffering, require courage and selflessness on those able to help.
Yet there are other storms that need heroes as well.  There are people who are persecuted for their beliefs; there are individuals who wallow in poverty and starvation; there are those who succumb to vice and sin. They need to be saved, by whom? Not just by nuns who follow the footsteps of Mother Teresa; not just by volunteers who work in charitable institutions; not just by campaigners in pro-life organisations. They need to be saved by you.
You could rescue that wayward youth, or that maltreated wife next door, or that fellow made redundant.  You could lend a hand to that inmate in the local prison, or that lass addicted to substance, or that missionary in need of support. So many are in need; yet so few are the workers.
We are our brother’s keepers. “When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.” (Romans 12:13) We are made to champion God’s causes.“Feed and shepherd God’s flock – his church, purchased with his own blood – over which the Holy Spirit has appointed you as elders.” (Acts 20:28)  But if you retreat from God’s calling for help to others, the message is: “If someone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion – how can God’s love be in that person?” (1 John 3:17)
As we pray for those who died in typhoons and other disasters in the Philippines and other countries of the world, let’s do our share of rescuing, of helping, of caring for those who live, yet suffer. We can be heroes to them; we can be heroes for God.

by Mel Libre

Monday 21 September 2009

Immortality In The Truest Sense


“If we make the right breakthroughs in the next 25 years, then there is a 50:50 chance that people alive today could live to be 1000 years old,” says Dr Audrey de Grey, editor-in-chief of the journal Rejuvenation Research and co-founder of the SENS Foundation. SENS stands for Strategies for Engineered Negligible Senescence that works on diverse disciplines such as tissues engineering, artificial intelligence, law, demographics and politics.

The statement was made by Dr de Grey during the 2009 SENS Conference participated in by 200 scientists who have been described as “the immortalists”. Among other things, they look at body parts like those of machines that can be replaced once these wear out thereby prolonging life, if not attaining immortality. The claim has statistics to support it with more than 300,000 people receiving tissue-engineered parts since 12 years ago when the technique was developed in a laboratory that made a human ear grow on the back of a mouse.

There is no argument that science has allowed people to live longer through advance techniques in medicine, better understanding of diseases, knowledge in prevention and modern approaches on wellness. But going into the realm of immortality is but a continuation of the search for the legendary fountain of youth. Richard Faragher, chairman of the British Society for Research on Ageing, is urging caution: “There are many ways that public health can be improved through simple measures such as managing hip fractures more effectively. We should be focusing on these things rather than dreaming about immortality.”

The health and wellness industry has grown steadily though the years with health gurus and miracles diets cashing in on promises of longevity and physical youthfulness. Nothing wrong really in seeking longer physical life, but then that is not how God will measure our worthiness in His kingdom. King Solomon wrote that God has planted eternity in the human heart. (Ecclesiastes 3:11) The concern of God is what is in our heart, what is in our soul. Jesus Christ shared: “I have come that they may have life, and they may have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10) And how can we live life abundantly? The answer: “And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.” (Deuteronomy 6:5)

Christ could have lived amongst us in person on earth forever, if He so willed. But He lived for only 33 years to assure us that there is life beyond life, there is life after death. “Jesus told her, ‘I am the resurrection and the life. Anyone who believes in me will live, even after dying’.” (John 11:25) God the Father sent Jesus to lead us to a blissful life for all eternity, immortality in the truest sense.  “For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

by Mel Libre

Monday 14 September 2009

The Most Important Book


A news item in Sydney reported in September 2009 that police officers in New South Wales are to receive their own specially designed Bible - offering spiritual guidance to a force with an unhappy history of misconduct and corruption. The new Bible, compact enough to be carried on the job, contains the Old and New Testaments, the police prayer and readings on ethics, service, integrity, leadership, grief, sin and forgiveness. Police Commissioner Andrew Scipione said: "I believe the police Bible will impact on generations of police officers to come."

I work in the Auckland High Court and at times, I carry out the job of a court taker whose primary task in to assist the judge in managing the proceedings inside the courtroom. I have observed that each courtroom has a Bible in the witness stand, while in the bigger courtrooms Bibles are a-plenty where the members of the jury sit. To ascertain that the truth prevails, witnesses swear by the Bible, while jurors commit by the Bible to render judgment fairly.

The world today is bound by so many treaties, laws and ordinances all meant to make society more humane and peaceful. Despite all these, there is so much violence, hatred and suffering. John Wycliffe once wrote: “The Gospel alone is sufficient to rule the lives of Christians everywhere...any additional rules made to govern men’s conduct added nothing to the perfection already found in the Gospel of Jesus Christ.” We must realise that the Bible contains the sacred words of God who speaks to all His people. He even sent His Only Son to bring His message of salvation. “All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realise what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right.” (2 Timothy 3:16)

The Bible is the most important book for every human being, not just for cops, witnesses or jurors. It openly tells on how to live a meaningful life and where we are destined thereafter.  “Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.” (Psalm 119:105) The Bible is specially designed for you by God to lead you towards the pearly Gates of Heaven.

by Mel Libre

Monday 7 September 2009

Come Holy Spirit, Heal Me


It was in the middle of the night when I suddenly woke up and felt the pain in my throat. I have had several far worse attacks of laryngitis or tonsillitis in the past that at times lasted months to heal. But this time around, I had a task ahead the next morning in a forum among migrants and next week an engagement to sing in two events.  Can there be instant healing? I raised myself up, gargled warm water with salt, and pressed acupuncture points in my body so I could be relieved of pain.  But the pain persisted into the morning; that I had to tell my wife to send my apologies to the forum organisers.

The entire Saturday I rested, popped a few vitamin pills, and I prayed.  Repeatedly I prayed, “Come Holy Spirit, heal me” until I fell asleep.  As the day continued, I did light household chores and kept on praying not just for myself, but also for the success of the forum; for my family, for the TawagAwit ministry and for many others.  By afternoon, my wife came back from the forum which she said was well-attended. The pain had reduced and by evening, I was healed.  Praise God!

How often to do we say thank you to the Lord for the miracles, monumental or little, in our lives? How often do we acknowledge God’s healing hands in our lives? How often do we testify of the Almighty’s work in our lives? In times of suffering, we seek refuge in the Lord. He takes care of us in His time. But some who are healed or are freed from burden take God’s intercession lightly by giving in to reason (“it was the medicine”, “it was the advice of the expert”, etc) or simply ignoring God for the positive outcome.

Pope Benedict XVI said: "Even today, not a few people remain scandalized by the paradox of the Christian faith. The teaching of Jesus seems hard, too difficult to welcome and put into practice, as a result, some refuse this teaching and abandon Christ. Some try to 'adapt' his words to the fashions of the time, distorting their meaning and value." Our task as Christians is to spread God’s Word so many can be saved. We can do so by being thankful to Him, by acknowledging Him in our lives and by testifying of His works. Let us be reminded by Christ’s powerful message: “Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the Son of man beashamed, when He cometh in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.” (Mark 8:38)

by Mel Libre

Sunday 30 August 2009

Celebrating Death


On August 30, 2009, seventeen thousand people paid homage to Kashin the 40-year old elephant who was one of the main attractions of the Auckland Zoo for decades.  The pachyderm was for months suffering from arthritis, foot abscesses and skin infections and her health had gone from bad to worse. The caretakers made a medical decision to euthanase her, if only to prevent further pain.

How could an elephant gather such number of fans when it could not even speak about love or friendship? Yet she did touch many people’s lives. Since she arrived in 1972, Kashin filled a 7-year absence of an elephant in the zoo since the demise in 1965 of the previous attraction – Jamuna.  She even became more popular when a bank used her image and name to encourage children to “cash in” or save.  The New Zealand Herald had an editorial for Kashin stating that “it felt like there had been a death in the family.” The mayor of Auckland declared: "A truly magnificent animal with a big heart, a great personality and a beautiful nature has left us."

For love is nourished by respect, by care, by love. The zoo keepers gave her space and freedom sans chains and hard labour. Caretakers spent quality time: feeding her, bathing her, walking her and even conversing with her. Visitors mostly filled with excitement and joy, showered her with cheers and warm touches. It may have been instinct that made Kashin gentle, responsive and attentive to people. It was a bond established through decades of friendship. The caretakers mourned, while “thousands of small children - many clutching tiny bouquets, cuddly toys and glittery cards - filed into the Auckland Zoo to say goodbye to their biggest friend.”

If Kashin had a big heart, God the Almighty has a vastly bigger heart. For not only is He sensitive to those who are faithful to Him, He is forgiving to those who are sinners. So much is God’s love for humankind that He sent His only Son, Jesus, to die in order to save us. “So also Jesus suffered and died outside the city gates to make his people holy by means of his own blood.”(Hebrews 13:12) No love can be greater than for a God dying for His people. Sinclair Ferguson puts it: “When you look at the cross, what do you see? You see God’s awesome faithfulness. Nothing – not even the instinct to spare His own Son – will turn Him back from keeping His Word.”

People celebrated the life of Kashin and mourned her death -- and rightly so. But for faithful believers of Christ, life is celebrated, more so with death. “For to me, living means living for Christ, and dying is even better.” (Philippians 1:21)

by Mel Libre

Monday 24 August 2009

God Sows


It is amazing how God leads us to fulfilling our dreams and aspirations. When I was a child, I simply loved to plant. Gardening was part of our activities in Cebu Normal Laboratory School and one of the vocational subjects in Abellana National School – and I cherished those moments in creating plots, sowing seeds, caring for plants and harvesting crops.

During my college years, I continued my passion by turning the lot at the side of our house into a vegetable garden. I told my parents that I’d pursue a degree in agriculture, but I took a different route instead to finish the unfulfilled dreams of my mother (to be a CPA) and my father (to be a lawyer). But I still continued to maintain vegetable and ornamental gardens even as a family man.

I thought I had thoroughly written-off my ambition to obtain formal training in horticulture. But I was led to meet Professor Misael ‘Jun’ Diputado, Jr of the Taratahi Agricultural Training Centre (http://horticulture-programme.co.nz) who was recruiting students for a horticulture course funded by the New Zealand government. I enrolled and learned about tools and records, soils, agrichemical use and plant structures from our caring and diligent teacher who flew in from Wellington to meet us in Auckland once a month.

One year later on August 19, 2009, Prof. Jun, who taught for years in the Visayas State University in Baybay, Leyte, Philippines, sent me an email message congratulating me for completing all 30 assessments of the National Certificate in Horticulture - Level 2. With the training, I feel more confident in pursuing TawagAwit’s Sow&Harvest Year 2 programme.

Sow&Harvest was conceived last year with the intention of encouraging TawagAwit members to cultivate vegetables in their backyard and share the harvest among co-members. It is a practical activity grounded on Christian love and sharing. A few weeks after launching the programme, I met Prof. Jun. "Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass." (Psalm 37:5) In His time, the Lord leads us to fulfilling our dreams and aspirations. All that is required is to follow His commands. "If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you. By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit; so you will be My disciples." (John 15:7-8)

For in truth, God sows in each of us gifts that are meant to benefit all; meant to glory Him. Keep those dreams and aspirations burning in your heart, "for nothing is impossible with God." (Luke 1:37)

by Mel Libre

Monday 17 August 2009

Standard of Giving

Margaret, a 72-year old woman in Masterson , New Zealand won one of the biggest lotto prizes at NZ$36.9 million in June 2009 with her two daughters and a granddaughter. She hugged the headlines again when in August 2009 she decided to give most of her winnings to charity. She said that she had no more plans for luxuries for herself apart from her long-desire to redecorate her former state home. The elderly lady said she would keep enough to live on and give the rest away.
 
One of the best books I’ve read is Og Magdino’s The Greatest Salesman in the World. What struck me most in the tale was the part when the main character Hafid, who rose from being a stable boy to an enormously wealthy merchant, in his old age gave away his assets leaving enough for himself until he died.
 
God wants us to be giving. The young man said to Him (Jesus), ‘All these things (the commandments I have kept from my youth. What do I still lack?’ Jesus said to him, ‘If you want to be perfect, go sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have  treasure in heaven; come and follow Me.’ (Matthew 19:20-21) One author Randy Alcord wrote: ‘God prospers me not to raise my standard of livng, but to raise my standard of giving.’ By being able to detach one’s self from material things, one will have conquered the world and tasted divinity. ‘Use your worldly resources to benefit others and make friends. Then when your earthly possessions are gone, they will welcome you to an eternal home.’ (Luke 16:9)
 
In our age and time when greed and selfishness seem to have become acceptable attributes, Margaret is a shining example of charity and selflessness. By her gesture, Margaret has secured the key to heaven.

by Mel Libre

Monday 10 August 2009

Modern-day Marys


A columnist once wrote that the Philippines would dominate the world. She claimed that though it does not have the military might, the nation has a secret weapon that has infiltrated the family homes of other countries, thereby transforming their occupants into ones with Filipino traits and values.  Opinion writer Jessica Zafra in her blog continues to update us on the Philippines ’“no longer secret campaign for world domination.”

She backs up her theory with a figure: 11 million Filipinos overseas. She cites the Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs) especially the domestic helpers who care for the children of foreign employers. These children will be treated to Filipino teleserye, Wowowee and even adobo.

While some countries have changed their policies allowing Filipinos to work in their field of specialization, there are still many that seek out our professionals to serve as domestic helpers and caregivers. The Philippine government proclaims the OFWs as the new heroes – and continues to encourage others to seek greener pastures, if only to sustain the green buck remittances that keep the Philippine economy afloat.

The trust that foreign parents have for Filipinos cannot be underestimated. They know Filipinos to be educated, well mannered and hardworking.  But most importantly they know us to be family-oriented, thus we take care of their children like our own. Most of us know of yayas (nannies) who spend most of their lives caring for children other than their own. We have developed that yaya-attitude that makes us perfect for absentee foreign parents.

Mary was entrusted by God to conceive and raise Jesus. She submitted to the will of the Lord and did her task selflessly even if this meant seeing Christ die on the cross. ‘And Mary said, Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word. And the angel departed from her.’ (Luke 1:38) Mother Mary is the model not just for parents, but for all who have responsibility over others, especially the innocent, the elderly, the sickly and the unfortunate ones.

We are all meant to do the will of God; and His will is for us to do good deeds. ‘I know the plans I have for you,’ says the Lord. ‘They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.’ (Jeremiah 29:11) When we are called to be domestic helpers or caregivers, God entrusts in us those whom we are assigned as patients or wards. We treat them with love and respect as Mary did for Jesus. We pray for theĆ­r wellness and protection; uplift them when they’re down and laugh with them in joyful moments. Other professionals as well can do the same to their employers, colleagues and clients.

by Mel Libre

Monday 3 August 2009

The Perfect Prayer of Cory Aquino


On August 1, 2009, former Philippine President Corazon ‘Cory’ Aquino died peacefully with all her children surrounding her. A prayer woman, Cory was known to be a devotee of Mother Mary and regularly recited the Holy Rosary. As Cory lay dying, her family was praying the Rosary and one account said that she expired at the time when they reflected on the Sorrowful Mysteries. She died on the first Saturday of the month, a day dedicated to Our Lady of Fatima and the Immaculate Heart of Mary.

It can now be revealed that one of the most effective weapons Cory used against the coup plotters who attempted to oust her seven times was a special hand-made rosary given to her by Sister Lucia dos Santos, one of the children who witnessed the miracle at Fatima. "Sister Lucia sent me this rosary which she herself made, with the message that I would be supported and protected in my presidency," Cory told Fr. Catalino Arevalo, SJ, her spiritual adviser. "Sister Lucia added that more sufferings would come my way," she said. "I know now that it was a prophetic message, as I had to fight back seven coup attempts to save my administration from power grabbers in uniform," Cory told Father Arevalo. "With Our Lady’s protection, I stood my ground and never left MalacaƱang, even when it was being attacked."

Ralph Pascual Guzman of Philippine Daily Inquirer wrote: "The nation has seen Cory’s heroism in her inner life, which she also attributes to the lessons she learned by reflecting on Fatima. She shares with the world three lessons that led to her conversion and that of Ninoy: 1) The power of prayer, particularly the rosary; 2) The acceptance of God’s plan in our lives and entrusting our lives to Mary; and 3) The offering of sacrifices to God. The former president lived a life of spirituality, humility and acceptance. She fought the good fight and kept the faith in her battle against colon cancer. In several interviews, journalists often asked Cory if she had met her quota of suffering. To these questions, she said she would look up to Jesus Christ, who suffered Himself and died to fulfill His mission. "Faith is not simply a patience that passively suffers until the storm is past. Rather, it is a spirit that bears things—with resignation, yes, but above all with blazing, serene hope," she said."

The outpouring of people to Cory’s wake is not surprising for she was an extraordinary woman who stood strong on her principles and knelt down humbly to her God. She suffers no more, for she is certainly in the company of angels and saints before the Almighty. Mother Mary has fulfilled her promise to Cory: "Devotion to my Rosary is a special sign of predestination."

One of the valuable lessons that Cory would want us to follow is to be prayerful; for her the perfect prayer is the Rosary. She would most likely tell us the fulfilment in her life and in her death the 15 promises of Our Lady. As we pay our last respects to Cory and pray to commend her spirit to the Lord, let us be reminded of the 15 promises of the Blessed Virgin to those who pray the Rosary.

1. To all those who recite my Rosary devoutly, I promise my special protection and very great graces.
2. Those who will persevere in the recitation of my Rosary shall receive some signal grace.
3. The Rosary shall be a very powerful armor against hell; it shall destroy vice, deliver from sin, and shall dispel heresy.
4. The Rosary shall make virtue and good works flourish, and shall obtain for souls the most abundant divine mercies; it shall substitute in hearts love of God for love of the world, elevate them to desire heavenly and eternal goods. Oh, that souls would sanctify themselves by this means!
5. Those who trust themselves to me through the Rosary, shall not perish.
6. Those who will recite my Rosary piously, considering its Mysteries, shall not be overwhelmed by misfortune nor die a bad death. The sinner shall be converted; the just shall grow in grace and become worthy of eternal life.
7. Those truly devoted to my Rosary shall not die without the consolations of the Church, or without grace.
8. Those who will recite my Rosary shall find during their life and at their death the light of God, the fullness of His grace, and shall share in the merits of the blessed.
9. I will deliver very promptly from purgatory the souls devoted to my Rosary.
10. The true children of my Rosary shall enjoy great glory in heaven.
11. What you ask through my Rosary, you shall obtain.
12. Those who propagate my Rosary shall obtain through me aid in all their necessities.
13. I have obtained from my son that all the confreres of the Rosary shall have for their brethren in life and death the saints of heaven.
14. Those who recite my Rosary faithfully are all my beloved children, the brothers and sisters of Jesus Christ.
15. Devotion to my Rosary is a special sign of predestination.

by Mel Libre

Monday 27 July 2009

We Become Strangers

How many hours do we spend in front of the computer or the television?  The technological advances in the past 25 years have turned many of us to robotic mode in many aspects of our lives – work, entertainment, relationship, romance etc.
 
Most professionals face the computer throughout the day updating, searching, analysing, and distributing data and information. Arriving home, they face the television for the news or series, if not play a computer game. Often, they compete with other family members for the use of the computer to connect with loved ones and friends in other parts of the world. The singles conveniently cultivate friendships in the net. The total number of hours that a white-collared individual spend before an electronic gadget should be no less than 10 out of 16 waking hours!
 
Most affected by technology is the family home. Haven’t you noticed that we could exchange pleasantries longer with the individual on the other end of the line than we do with people who are present in a room with us? The attitude is like “Why bother, they’re just around anyway?” As we connect our lives to the distant, we detach ourselves to those near. The chips that make up closeness fall and before we know it, we have become strangers with those whom we love.
 
How do we cultivate our relationship in the family?
  • It all begins with one’s self. An individual must accept the person that he or she is. No one is perfect; yet, we must strive to be perfect not in the eyes of man, but before God. One must be able to smoothen the flaws in one’s self, and at the same time, nourish the good within.
  • Be genuinely interested in the other person. What makes this son unique? What are likes and dislikes of this daughter? What makes Dad or Mom happy? It’s not always about us, but it’s about the people around us. One must look at the other with compassion and understanding to set the tone of closeness. Constant and meaningful communication is key towards building enriching family relations.
  • Gather the family. There was a time when sharing the meal in the dining table was the norm. But the busyness has taken its toll on family togetherness. Tradition was for families to gather together at six o’clock in the evening before the image of the Virgin Mother to pray the Rosary. These things should not be relegated to the past; but should remain alive to strengthen the family.  Parents should be like church elders of old. “He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him. For if a man cannot manage his own household, how can he take care of God’s church?” (1 Timothy 3:4-5)  Every Wednesday night, my family would gather in the living room. We start with singing, then follow through with prayers, Gospel reading and reflection. We then proceed to recite the Rosary and conclude with singing. After the gathering, there is always a sense of peace, happiness and security in our home.
  •  Make God the centre of the family. It is the responsibility of parents to nurture the spiritual growth of their children. “Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones” (Psalm 16:24). To be effective, the parents must be strong in and knowledgeable of their faith. Teaching the Good News must be demonstrated in daily acts of living and loving. God must be the Master of the home; and He will be, if the family prays together for His help and blessings.  
 
We are judged by the fruits that we bear. Parents must do their utmost best to raise Godly children. Children must obey their parents as God willed parents to be his representatives on earth.            
 
We must realise that the core to peace in the world is the family. Pope Benedict XVI said in December 2008: “By looking to the family as the prototype of every social order, humanity can learn how to achieve peace. The family is the foundation of society for this reason too: because it enables its members in decisive ways to experience peace." The Pontiff said. "It follows that the human community cannot do without the service provided by the family. Where can young people gradually learn to savor the genuine 'taste' of peace better than in the original 'nest' which nature prepares for them?”

Monday 20 July 2009

The Family Rosary


In 1953, the biggest religious gatherings in the Philippines were the Rosary Rallies with about a million in attendance each in Manila and in Cebu. Rev Fr Patrick Peyton, founder of the Family Rosary Crusade, came to the Philippines with the message of having every family make a habit of reciting the Rosary together. Fr Peyton whose parents were Irish farmers prayed the Rosary as a family. When he became a priest he discovered that he had incurable tuberculosis. He surrendered himself to the Blessed Mother. A few months later, doctors were baffled that he was completely cured. The miracle intensified Fr Peyton’s devotion to the Blessed Mother and he spent the rest of his life promoting the Family Rosary.

The rosary is the perfect prayer for it allows us to reflect on the awesome story of our salvation through the lives of Jesus Christ and the Holy Mother. In her message in Fatima, so important is the Rosary that Our Lady chose to identify herself as "The Lady of the Rosary." It is said that in each of the six apparitions she asked for the daily Rosary, and especially as an instrument of world peace. As she revealed in the third apparition: "You must recite the Rosary every day in honor of Our Lady of the Rosary to obtain peace for the world and the end of the war for only she can obtain this." Pope Leo XIII also viewed the rosary as a vital means to participate in the life of Mary and to find the way to Christ.

The rosary is also an old family prayer. This specific family devotion has been supported by several popes. In his encyclical Ingruentium Malolrum, Pope Pius XII said: "The custom of the family praying of the Holy Rosary is a most efficacious means. What a sweet sight - most pleasing to God - when, at eventide, the Christian home resounds with the frequent repetition of praises in honor of the High Queen of Heaven! Then the Rosary, recited in the family, assembled before the image of the Virgin, in an admirable union of hearts, the parents and their children, who come back from their daily work. It unites them piously with those absent and those dead. It links all more tightly in a sweet bond of love, with the most Holy Virgin, who, like a loving mother, in the circle of her children, will be there bestowing upon them an abundance of the gifts of concord and family peace."

In today’s hyperactive, if not wired up, society, setting aside time for family and for prayer is becoming a burden, rather than being a priority. There seems to be so many other things to do; so many commitments to fulfil that family and prayer cannot simply fit into one’s diary. The most important, the most basic are often relegated to the last priority. The end result: unhappy marriages and broken families. The end result: disconcerted communities and a troubled world. Fr Peyton’s message remains relevant today as when he started his crusade. In 1987, Pope John Paul II said, "May the Rosary once more become the accustomed prayer of the Christian family." We can attain a little piece of heaven on earth beginning in the family by praying together the Rosary.

by Mel Libre

Monday 13 July 2009

The Borgueta Family


Together they arrive for the regular gatherings of TawagAwit-St Thomas More Parish Chapter. Three brothers carry musical instruments; the father has the amplifier and the mother the music sheets. The Borgueta family provides the musical backbone of the group and their commitment is an inspiration to the other ministry members.

It took me nearly a year to convince Bro Noel and Sis Gladys to join the group; and it was only later on that I realised that they were waiting for their eldest son, Justine, to arrive in New Zealand. Justine was left behind in the Philippines to finish his degree in the University of San Carlos in Cebu, while the rest settled in Auckland.

Once the family was complete, it wasn’t difficult to persuade Bro Noel and Sis Gladys to join TawagAwit. That was nearly a year ago. During the feast of St Thomas More on July 11, 2009, the family accepted the task of providing the band music during the program. They came early to put in place the instruments and the sound system. The boys, whose band is called TBB or The Borgueta Brothers, rehearsed their songs inside the children’s room; while their parents prepared the stage for them. When the boys (joined by pop-rock artist Junnes) started their performance, Bro Noel documented the performance while Sis Gladys was smiling and on her feet proud of her boys, more so when the youngest son, Eric, sang for the first time before a crowd. It was such a joy to witness the support of the parents and the unity of the family as they offered their gift of music to the delight of the audience.

God created the first family unit out of one of Adam’s ribs (Genesis 2:21-22) for He meant the family to be united in flesh, in blood and in spirit. He wants the family to support each other not just in the basic necessities in life, but in all its other aspects. "Now if anyone does not provide for his own relatives, and especially for his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (1Timothy 5:8).

Archbishop Desmond Tutu said: "You don't choose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them"; while business leader Lee Iacocca tells: "The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family." It is important for an individual not to take for granted the family; for among the greatest joys in life are time spent with family. In his book The Life of Reason, George Santayana writes: "The family is one of nature's masterpieces." I would opt to re-phase that: "The family is one of God’s masterpieces."

by Mel Libre

Monday 6 July 2009

President Cory


There are people who prefer to be in the sideline; working quietly to serve others.  Though wont to be in the limelight, some are destined to do bigger things for the better good.

Corazon “Cory” Aquino stood under the shadow of Benigno “Ninoy” Aquino Jr., a popular political figure in the Philippines who led the opposition against President Ferdinand Marcos who placed the country under martial law.  She took care of her children while at the same time visited Ninoy who was imprisoned. When her husband was sent into exile, she joined him leaving behind her life in the Philippines.  But there was a higher calling other than being Ninoy’s wife. Her husband was assassinated and the Filipino people sought her to become the leader to oust the dictator.

Hesitant at first, Cory agreed to the call. Through a dramatic turn of events leading towards the 1986 People Power Revolution, she was sworn in as President of the Republic of the Philippines. She set out to dismantle the machinery of the dictatorship and lead the Filipino in building a better nation through reconciliation. She said: “Reconciliation should be accompanied by justice, otherwise it will not last. While we all hope for peace it shouldn't be peace at any cost but peace based on principle, on justice.” While her government was threatened by coup attempts by displaced military officers, she declared: “As I came to power peacefully, so shall I keep it.” On a personal note, Cory Aquino signed the amnesty paper of my father, Angel Jr., who was persecuted by the Marcos regime. To her, our family remains indebted.

Cory Aquino, who suffers from colon cancer, lies physically frail in a Makati City hospital and her family decided to cease chemotherapy and other medical interventions. But the entire Filipino nation prays for her healing and of late her spokesperson said that: “she's stable, she's comfortable now and I can tell you that she received communion last Sunday,"

Marcos once said that Cory was undeserving to be president because was “just a woman”.  But it was because of her womanhood that made her the leader the Philippines needed as it struggled in its new found freedom.  With so many people with diverse causes and interests around her, Cory listened.  “Fools think their own way is right; but the wise leader listens to others.” (Proverbs 12:25) In the worst coup attempt against her government, Cory was said to have retreated to a room in Malacanang and knelt down to pray; and yes, loyal soldiers (and surely angels) protected her.  She was first and foremost a prayerful leader.   “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.”(Proverbs 3:5-6)
Let us all pray for Cory Aquino. Let us pray that she will be well again. Let us pray that she will not be in pain. Let us pray that in her living we can learn from good she had done to the Filipino people and the world as well. Cory once said: “I would rather die a meaningful death than to live a meaningless life.”  President Cory, you lived a meaningful life, for truly you touched our lives.

by Mel Libre

Monday 29 June 2009

We Are The World

In 1984, famine ravaged most of Africa and artists, initially in the United Kingdom, put out a single, "Do They Know It’s Christmas" to raise funds to save lives of people dying. US singer Harry Belafonte took the initiative in the other end of Atlantic inviting the hottest American acts of the time..
The response to the invitation to join the cause was overwhelming with a super group of 50 lending their voices to a song called "We are the World". It was a who’s who event that included Ray Charles, Bob Dylan, Billy Joel, Cyndi Lauper, Kenny Rogers, Diana Ross, Bruce Springsteen and Stevie Wonder.
The recording was done immediately after the American Music Awards of 1985 – and one major artist had to skip the ceremonies to put out the vocals as a guide to the rest of the group. That artist was Michael Jackson who together with Lionel Richie composed the masterpiece that won four Grammys including Song of the Year, Record the Year and Best Pop Performance by a Duo or Group. More importantly it raised $63 million for the famine relief in Africa. It was a truly remarkable effort.
Michael Jackson died on June 26, 2009 at the age of 50 and he was in the midst of preparing for 50 major sold out shows in London. Though he may have had many issues that tarnished his image, Jackson did his share to alleviate poverty, and at the same time developed God given gifts in song and dance to perfection.
God gives every individual a gift or gifts. Some discover this early (like Michael Jackson), while others much later in life. "John answered and said, A man can receive nothing, except it be given him from heaven." (John 3:27) For a moment, look at yourself in a mirror and reflect on what you are really good at. Have you used this to make someone feel better? It is in the sharing of our gifts that we become true Christians. "But rather give alms of such things as ye have; and, behold, all things are clean unto you." (Luke 11:41)
Let us pray for the repose of the soul of Michael Jackson. To remember him, you may hum the words of the timeless anthem: "We are the World."  

by Mel Libre

There comes a time when we heed a certain call
When the world must come together as one.
There are people dying and it's time to lend a hand
To life - the greatest gift of all.

We can't go on pretending day by day
That someone somewhere will soon make a change.
We are all a part of God's great big family
And the truth You know
Love is all we need.

We are the world
We are the children
We are the ones who make a brighter day

So let's start giving.
There's a choice we're making
We're saving our own lives.
It's true Well make a better day
Just you and me.

Well send them your heart
So they'll know that someone cares
And their lives will be stronger and free.
As God has shown us by turning stones to bread
And so we all must lend a helping hand.
We are the world
We are the children
We are the world
We are the children

Monday 22 June 2009

White Hills Community

It is the desire of every family to live in a good neighbourhood. We want to feel safe, to associate with decent individuals, to raise our children in a friendly environment.
 
My family prayed for such an ideal place and found it in White Hills Subdivision in Banawa, Cebu, Philippines. It wasn’t even a community then, but a barren hilly landscape, when my wife and I bought a piece of property along with other middle-income earners wanting to have their first homes. Pagtambayayong, a non-government organisation, invited more than a hundred families to work together to build the community – and worked together we did. From the purchasing of the sizeable land to dividing the lots, from design planning to construction, and from road building to operating the subdivision. It was not smooth sailing through the journey, but despite the many problems, we succeeded due to the commitment of good people wanting only the best for their fellowmen.
 
The community built a wooden chapel and we had anticipated mass once a month. On one occasion, the priest told the congregation that he wondered why the chapel was not as beautiful as most of the houses in the subdivision. A few months later, the priest was awed at the concrete structure where he held mass, but still commented that the sound system did not blend with the refurbished chapel. The entire community was surprised because the following week a brand-new Ramsa PA system was delivered without anyone knowing from whom it came from. The kind gesture brought closer the community as each family thought of the other as the donor.
 
Jesus taught us: "Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven." (Matthew 6:1) Saint Peter Chrysologus (c.406-450) said in his sermon: "Righteousness that sets itself in the sight of others can expect no divine reward from the Father. It wanted to be seen and it was seen; it wanted to please others and it pleased them. It has received the recompense it wanted; the recompense it did not want, it will not have." But what is fascinating about doing a good gesture in secret is that it creates an environment of trust and love among the people who are benefited; while the Lord Almighty is pleased with the anonymous giver.
 
In his message during the Lenten season in 2008, Pope Benedict XVI stated: "In today’s world of images, attentive vigilance is required, since this temptation (of self promotion) is great. Almsgiving, according to the Gospel, is not mere philanthropy: rather it is a concrete expression of charity, a theological virtue that demands interior conversion to love of God and neighbour, in imitation of Jesus Christ, who, dying on the cross, gave His entire self for us." Let us imitate the selflessness of Christ in His living and in His dying. This is the key towards attaining not just a good neighbourhood, but an ideal world.

by Mel Libre